
MIPA - LIFE OF A MILITARY PARTNER

The Mini Mipa in the Making
A quickie about continued separation, wedding stress, and a growing belly and family!

The Covid Christmas Chapter
About getting Covid as a Christmas present, and continuing long-distance but under one roof.

The Relationship Car Servicing
About trials of more separation, ''servicing the relationship car'' and our current situation living in diffrent states.

The Post-Deployment Chapter
About the rollercoaster that is post-deployment reintegration.

What The F*ck Do I Say?
With a poetic title, here is the long anticipated guest-blog by Man! He shares his side of the deployment - and quarantaine - experience.

The Big Return
The last bits are the hardest... Read about the anticipation of the big post-deployment reunion!

The Light and the Dark - part II
About lessons learned and habits formed or broken in Crazy Corona times

The Light and the Dark - part I
About the challenges and the hopes of living in times of a pandemic whilst your loved one is deployed.

The Wild Horse - part I
A blog about cherishing independence - loaded with horsey puns.

The Yes Woman
About our first real deployment and winning the game called life.

The Mongol Way of Life
A journey through the similarities between soldiers and nomads, and an exploration of what makes a Mipa an ‘in-dependant’.

The Yoga of Life
On effort, ease and balance – and how great a metaphor yoga is for military life.

The Homecoming
The to-do’s and not-to-do’s for smooth(legged) homecomings

The Desperate Housewife
About new chapters, permanent goodbyes, the ups and downs of being reunited under one roof again, life as a housewife and…. AN ENGAGEMENT!

The Pacifist
Can evil be defeated without violence? An ethical reflection by a pacifist on when and why violence itself sometimes is a necessary evil...

The Career Switch
Military partner: the job you never wanted when growing up, the job you never applied for, but the position you ended up in nevertheless.

The Coping Mechanisms
Einstein and Kant on the topic of long-distance (sort of) and my 8 ways to overcome the challenge that it can be.



















